Tuesday, October 03, 2006

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I had something I was going to post today.

Then my friend Melissa sent me the article below in an e-mail. I'm posting it instead because you have to read this story and watch this video.

You have to.

[From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly]

I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit shoots. But compared with Dick Hoyt, I suck.

Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and
pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day. Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him on his back mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S. on a bike. Makes taking your son bowling look a little lame, right?

And what has Rick done for his father? Not much--except save his life.

This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs. ``He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life;'' Dick says doctors told him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. ``Put him in an institution.'' But the Hoyts weren't buying it.

They noticed the way Rick's eyes followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything to help the boy communicate. ``No way,'' Dick says he was told. ``There's nothing going on in his brain.''

"Tell him a joke,'' Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed. Turns out a lot was going on in his brain.

Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to communicate. First words? ``Go Bruins!'' And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, ``Dad, I want to do that.''

Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described ``porker'' who never ran more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still, he tried. ``Then it was me who was handicapped,'' Dick says. ``I was sore for two weeks.''

That day changed Rick's life. ``Dad,'' he typed, ``when we were running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!'' And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became obsessed with giving Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly shape that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979 Boston Marathon. ``No way,'' Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway, then they found a way to get into the race officially: In 1983 they ran another marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the following year.

Then somebody said, ``Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?'' How's a guy who never learned to swim an d hadn't ridden a bike since he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon? Still, Dick tried. Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?

Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? ``No way,'' he says. Dick does it purely for ``the awesome feeling'' he gets seeing Rick with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together. This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their best time? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35 minutes off the world record, which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens to be held by a guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at the time.

``No question about it,'' Rick types. ``My dad is the Father of the Century.'' And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that one of his arteries was 95% clogged. ``If you hadn't been in such great shape,'' one doctor told him, ``you probably would've died 15 years ago.'' So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.

Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care) and works in Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass., always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and compete in some backbreaking race every weekend, including this Father's Day.

That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really wants to give him is a gift he can never buy. ``The thing I'd most like,'' Rick types, ``is that my dad sit in the chair and I push him once.''

Here's the video....

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21 comments:

Deb said...

Okay I can't watch the video while at work, so if this is some joke thing I hate you, because you have me sniffling and my mascara is running...
PMS or Pregnant, but that story is so sappy and sweet makes me want to hug someone and tell them I love them, Thanks!

Kristin said...

I know of this man and his son and they humble me to my very core... thanks for the reminder... I started off my day having a mini-fit over my kid getting his breakfast all over his one clean PE shirt... I was in desperate need of a reality check.

The Medium Swede said...

I read that story while perusing my Sports Illustrated a while ago. I also saw this feature which showed the man and his son on Real Sports with Bryant Gumbel on HBO.

It is amazing!

Sayre said...

Wow. I can't hear it at work, but watching it in silence even brought me to tears. What a beautiful love story. Makes me appreciate my already wonderful son even more!

Plain Jane Mom said...

There's no way I can watch this at work without bursting into tears at my desk. I've heard of this fantastic team before, and I just love the story.

Marion said...

What an amazing story! Thank you.

Waya said...

What a tear jerker! Being from Mass. They are a famous pair and I think people watch the marathon just to cheer Rick/Dick on. And my problem is so minuscule compares to what they have gone through together. Such an inspiration!

That's definitely "Father of a Century"!

jen said...

wow. talk about perspective and humanity and gratitude. thanks for sharing that.

Carrie said...

Wow. That's all I can say... wow.

Kevin Charnas said...

I'm crying like a baby...thank you. That's one of the most beautiful things I've seen in a longtime.

And to think that earlier today I was whinning because I think I fractured a toe. I need my ass kicked.

kim said...

That was awesome ... I sat and cried thru the whole thing ... the dedication of that fantastic man is amazing.

lildb said...

I'm so glad I read that. I'm so glad you put it up here for me (and everyone) to read.

now that's something that makes me glad to be alive.

Mommy off the Record said...

I'm bawling. This was beautiful. Thank you for posting it.

The news of those poor Amish girls who were shot was really depressing me this week, but in watching this video I am reminded of the goodness in this world. Thank you.

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Sandra Miller said...

I missed this post yesterday.

Very glad I found it today-- wept through the whole thing.

Beautiful.

Trish said...

It's a beautiful story and one I can relate to. I know, despite what I'm told about my own child, that there's a lot more going on than the so-called professional believe.
Thanks for sharing that.

urban-urchin said...

I am still crying! That was absolutely beautiful. And entirely humbling. What an awesome tribute to the power of the love.

wordgirl said...

Wow. I have no words.

blessedmomx3 said...

I saw this pair on Oprah I think, and I cried through that. Since I already knew of the story, I didn't think it would get me again. WRONG! Tears streaming down my face!!! And I was dreading trying to get my 3 toddlers into the gym by myself tomorrow morning! I agree with Kevin. I need my ass kicked!

mothergoosemouse said...

That is simply incredible - heart-warming and motivational. I will have to show that story and video to Kyle, our resident triathlete.

ZUBA said...

Just spent 6 months in hospital after a bike v's semi trailer crash and still have a broken pelvis, that story and vid has really put things in perspective for me.